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Living Solo, Not Alone: How Senior Living Creates Built-In Community 

For older adults who are “aging solo,” connection and companionship are keys to living well. Research shows that loneliness can impact both emotional and physical health – but at Montereau in Tulsa, solo agers discover a vibrant community where friendships flourish and every day brings new opportunities to engage, learn, and belong. 

At Montereau, aging alone doesn’t mean being alone. Residents of this upscale Life Plan Community find that social connection naturally becomes part of their daily rhythm – from joining friends for chef-prepared meals to chatting with neighbors at morning fitness classes or attending on-campus evening concerts. According to the Mather Institute’s AgeWell Study (Year 3), residents of Life Plan Communities report higher levels of happiness and life satisfaction – thanks in large part to the meaningful social interactions these communities foster. The study found that “strong social connections and frequent engagement” were top factors associated with emotional wellness. 

Connection Comes Naturally 

At Montereau, it’s easy for solo agers to build lasting friendships while staying as independent as they choose. With dozens of activities every week – from mahjong and book clubs to art workshops, bridge, and lifelong learning opportunities – residents discover shared interests and build genuine camaraderie. 

Outdoor enthusiasts enjoy walking groups and world-class golf courses nearby, while foodies savor gourmet dining, mixology classes and chef demonstrations. Music lovers can attend concerts, recitals, and local outings with friends who share their interests. Every activity calendar is thoughtfully designed to support whole-person wellness – physical, emotional, and social. (You can explore more of what’s happening toward the bottom of our independent living page.) 

Voices of Friendship and Belonging 

For many residents, what sets Montereau apart is the warm, inclusive spirit that quickly turns neighbors into friends. Georgia and Ken, independent living residents, share, “We’ve made so many friends here – it’s like an extended family. You can be as busy and social as you want to be.” 

Pat W. adds, “There’s always something to do and someone to do it with. I never feel isolated or alone here.” 

Their words reflect what countless solo agers find at Montereau: an upscale and expansive community where connection, laughter, and purpose fill each day. 

The Wellness Advantage of Social Living 

The AgeWell Study reinforces what Montereau residents experience firsthand: strong relationships support better emotional wellness and a greater sense of purpose. In fact, the study found that residents who engage more frequently in community activities report significantly higher levels of life satisfaction. Montereau’s holistic approach to wellness – which includes physical fitness, intellectual growth, creative expression, and spiritual enrichment – helps ensure every resident thrives in mind, body, and spirit. 

Learn more about Montereau’s approach to wellness here

Discover Friendship, Freedom and Fulfillment 

For those aging solo, senior living at Montereau offers the best of both worlds: the independence and comfort of a spacious private residence and the uplifting culture a supportive, social community.  

Ready to see how Montereau makes aging alone feel anything but lonely? Schedule a tour and you’ll quickly see why so many Tulsa seniors are loving life at Montereau. 

At Montereau, we’re here to help you navigate this time. For additional information on locating resources, give us a call today at 918-495-1500.

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